5 Myths About Long-Distance Relationships

5 Myths About Long-Distance Relationships


Long-distance relationships (LDRs) often get a bad reputation  we've all heard the clichés: "They never last," "It’s just a phase," or "It’s not real love unless you’re together."

 

Myth #1: "Long-distance relationships never last."

The truth: Many long-distance couples not only last they thrive.
In fact, studies show LDR couples often have deeper communication, more emotional intimacy, and stronger commitment.

Being apart forces you to be more intentional about how you connect and that builds a solid foundation many "normal" relationships miss.

How to fight the distance:

  • Schedule regular video calls

  • Surprise each other (like with a Miwityu box 😉)

  • Set goals for your future together

 

Myth #2: "You can’t build real intimacy from afar."

The truth: Intimacy isn’t just physical. Emotional closeness sharing your thoughts, fears, silly jokes, and late-night “I miss you” messages is the true heart of a relationship.

LDRs challenge couples to talk, listen, and understand each other in deeper ways.

How to stay close emotionally:

  • Play virtual games or watch shows together

  • Send handwritten letters or thoughtful notes

 

Myth #3: "You’ll eventually grow apart."

The truth: Growing apart is a risk in any relationship not just long-distance ones. The key is effort, not proximity.

Couples who prioritize each other, keep communication open, and continue to share life moments (even small ones) stay connected.

How to grow together from afar:

  • Celebrate each other’s wins, no matter how small

  • Keep talking about your dreams, even when you’re not together

 

Myth #4: "It’s not a real relationship if you’re not physically together."

The truth: Love doesn’t require geography.
If you’re showing up emotionally, supporting each other, and planning for the future that’s as real as it gets.

 

Myth #5: "It’s too much work. It’ll never feel natural."

Yes, LDRs come with unique challenges — time zones, travel costs, missing birthdays — but they also teach you how to love with intention.

With the right effort, even the miles can feel manageable.

How to make it easier:

  • Create a shared routine

  • Let Miwityu handle the surprises — so you don’t have to plan every moment

 

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